For me, dating was all kinds of confusing! Of course, I ran into my share of bozos, players in Romeo clothing, and more! But, more than anything, I ran into men who claimed affection for me that I simply found hard to believe. I either found it difficult to believe that some great guy could really feel so strongly for me (so I sabotaged the relationship), or I felt that I just wasn’t into the guy enough to be able to return the affection he expressed (so…. I… sabotaged the relationship).
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The truth is, after dating for about half my life, I just didn’t know what I wanted. And letting someone else choose what that was, even if the someone did appear to be a Romeo, frightened me! I went from worrying that I’d be chosen as a bride someday, to worrying that I’d be chosen by the wrong guy as a bride… and then live the next 72 days of our marriage (Kardashian pun intended) in regret! So, one of my dating experiments was centered around self-promotion. It was about working my way, and my confidence, up the throngs of dating hierarchy until I found myself no longer being selected by the guys who wanted me… but by the guys that I wanted!
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In my first ebook, “How to Date the MVP of Your League,” I will talk about just that!
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While we all hate to believe that there are leagues within which we date, subconsciously we do tend to allow ourselves to believe that a guy is either in or out of range for us. In my book, I talk about applying one of my most used and recommended theories, The Pull Theory, to subtly lure the guy of your dreams! How to make him notice you without ever becoming the aggressor; and how to apply other techniques, such as “leaning back” to get him to realize that you are the girl he wants.
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The book is scheduled for release in early Spring, but in the meantime, I will keep you informed with blog updates, newsletters, and excerpts from the book. In addition, you are welcome to write me your questions and gain my response about these theories and just general concerns!
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